Homeschooling: Where do I start?

Where Do I Start?

So, you have your "Why" and are gonna homeschool. Now what?!? There is SOOO much information out there that one can get tremendously overwhelmed. I STILL get overwhelmed and I've been doing it for 3 years now! Here's my thoughts for whatever they are worth:

1) Find out what kind of homeschooler you want to be. 

• Are you looking for an unschooling method? Some people love just living life and embracing any and all experiences as "learning opportunities". As a public school kid, I find I do not do this easily. I learned to test and retained nothing :(

• Would you like to teach/learn through unit studies? I love unit studies but find I need more structure than this

• Do you want a laid out curriculum that comes all boxed up with a pretty bow? (Me, Me, Me!)

• Would you like someone else to teach and direct your child but still keep them home? There are many free online homeschools that will do just that. K12, Connections Academy, and several others. Ohio has one called OHDELA they will even give you a printer and a monthly stipend to help you pay for extra curriculars. 

2) Read the homeschooling laws for your state. 
Go to http://www.hslda.org/ 
Becoming a member of Homeschool Legal Defense would also be a step that I would take if you are looking at doing this for an extended period of time. They've got your back. Always! 


3) Purchase your curriculum
There are sooo many sources to choose from! Homeschooling used to be so obscure and difficult. Now you can practically do it completely free and online. I have numerous websites pinned on my Pinterest boards, if you are interested. But for your information and since this is solely my blog and my opinion, here are my favs!

• Bekah's favorite multi-subject Curriculum in a box:                                                         

Sonlight http://www.sonlight.com . If I had the money, I would buy Sonlight. I love their readers and use their list in my own homeschool adventure. 

~You could choose instead the tried and true- Abeka  Warning: It's pricey too! 

• MATH:    

Saxon- This is what I use mainly because of peer pressure. Seriously, my hubby was taught using Saxon and swore by it and then my SIL said it was the "best" so I went with Saxon. It is a a GREAT curriculum. Pros: It is heavy on manipulatives which works for me and some of my kinesthetic learners. It is thorough. You know the student is learning the concept before another is taught. Cons: It is tedious. It is repetitive. I have to edit a lot to save my sanity and the sanity of my kids. Because I am not using the whole program the way it is written, I feel guilty, push my kids too hard, and then math becomes dreadful for us all. (sigh)                                                                                                                                      
Math U See- I ALMOST bought this whole program this year. I have a ton of friends who use it and they all love it! I was nervous to start something new and totally different at this stage plus my practical side wouldn't let me buy new stuff when I have another one that works great and is paid for! Pros: Heavy with manipulatives. Cons: each workbook is one concept heavy. Ex: Their Beta book is primarily addition and subtraction. If you were to put your child into public school after only one year, I am not sure if they would have the well rounded knowledge of their grade level math concepts.                                                                                               
 Right Start Math- I attended a LDS homeschool conference in May where the creator of Right Start Math was there and gave a presentation on the program. I was VERY impressed and enthralled! It seemed like a wonderful mesh of Saxon and Math U See. Probably would have been perfect for me IF I had let myself spend the $. Pros: Good solid math program. Heavy on mainpulatives but more cyclical than Math U See. Cons: only goes up to 5th grade. Price.
 

•  HISTORY: 

Story of the World www.peacehillpress.com. This is a classical education based program with a 4 year cycle of History volumes. It comes with an Activity Book which is full of student coloring pages, recipes, crafts, and other readings to go along with the chapters and subjects you study in the history book itself. It also has a test book to keep tabs on retention. My kids beg for history! It is their favorite subject!                                                                          
ABEKA- This is probably the longest standing homeschool curriculum out there. Its pricey though!                                                                                                                                                   My Father's World-Christian based. Cute graphics. Fun. Pricey. 

• WRITING:

Let's face it, all kids at the elementary age REALLY need to focus on is Reading, Writing, and Arithmetic.  My favorite handwriting learning curriculum is...
Handwriting Without Tears www.hwtears.com. It is SUPER fun, easy, and the kids like it instead of dreading it like I did in school. You don't even need to buy anything. There are TONS of websites where you can print off handwriting sheets for free. Google is my best friend! 

• READING/GRAMMAR:

First of all, READ TO YOUR KIDS!!! Read to them! There are sooo many studies that prove that IQs are higher in children whose parents read to them at young ages. (I start reading to mine while they are in utero!) 
We have Guided Reading, Individual Reading, and Free Reading at our house.
Guided Reading is where I read to my kids a book of my choice (usually a classic). We spend 20-30 mins depending on behaviors with the little ones. Sometimes it will be up to an hour if its at the climax and the kids just don't want me to stop!
Individual Reading is where the kids have to read at least 30 mins of a book on their reading list. (Remember the Sonlight list?)
Free Reading- this is where they can pick anything they want to read and read it. Yes, even Calvin and Hobbes, Pokemon, or Diary of a Wimpy Kid ~cringe! The point is to let them read things that are fun to them. I usually do this during quiet/nap time to help us all stay quiet!

Grammar: I LOVE Grammar!
I use First Language Lessons from www.peacehillpress.com
I also like Abeka and Shurley English. Because First Language Lessons only has 4 levels available, Zechariah has finished them all. This year he will graduate to Shurley Grammar for his middle school grammar studies.

• SPELLING: 

First of all, I believe the more you read and write, the more proper spelling will come naturally to you (at least it did to me). However, I am realizing that not everyone can just see a word and know how it is supposed to be spelled. Shocker! I have used a workbook called Spelling Workout. It's like $8 on amazon or something. This year I am starting a new Spelling program that many of my homeschooler friends RAVE about: All About Spelling. I will let you know how it goes!

• SCIENCE:

Oh science, I hate you and you hate me! I am terrible at teaching science! Why, you ask? Because I was taught out of a textbook but am a kinesthetic learning. Therefore, I have NO applicable knowledge in this field. AT ALL! My kids ask me questions and I have no answer for them. I feel stupid. I am also a bit OCD and cannot stand the mess of a science project happening in my house. :( I do have loads of science readers I make them read and I put my kids on National Geographic, NASA, and other science related websites. But that is the extent of my endeavor...until now. Realizing my disdain for science, I enrolled my kiddos in a science class taught at a Fossil and Science Center here in town. I'm ecstatic and so are they! YAY!
There are science curricula out there! My fav is Apologia. It is a Creation based approach to science instead of evolutionary, which I appreciate. We finished the Solar System book and had a blast doing it. They have many subjects to choose from and the price is fairly good.

Did I forget anything? Gosh, I hope not! Please comment, FB me, or email me with any further questions you might have. I really hope this helps at least a little.

You can do it! I know you can! Good luck on your new adventure! It is super crazy but crazy rewarding!